Secrets?

A secret to me is something a person wants to share with a trusted group of people to avoid embarrassment. Everyone has a secret, either they have shared it with someone, or just kept it to themselves. I know I have many, and most are shared just to get advice on what to do on that point. I suck at keeping my own secret, but keeping my friends secrets is no problem at all. I cannot understand why is it like that, why do I feel this need to tell people shit about myself that no one is interested in anyway? I am such a sad little human being… What is life?!